8 THINGS YOU CAN DO THAT AREN'T SO LITTLE
September 13 2025 – Delikate Rayne
In a world that’s always urging us to do more, be more, move faster, we often overlook the power of the simple things, the quiet, tender acts that reconnect us with who we are and what matters. The truth is, some of the most impactful things you can do for your peace, growth, and healing don’t make loud noise but they echo deeply. Here are 8 things you can do that might seem small but they’re not so little at all.
1. Letting Go Of What You Can’t Control: Releasing the grip on outcomes, other people’s opinions, or the past is not giving up, it’s choosing peace over panic. Letting go doesn't mean you don't care. It means you're giving yourself permission to breathe again.
2. Forgiving Yourself: You’ve carried the guilt long enough. You’re allowed to grow from the mistakes without chaining yourself to them. Forgiveness isn't weakness, it’s an act of strength and softness all at once.
3. Smiling at Yourself: Smiling at yourself can help so much. It’s a beautiful pause in self judgment. A little warmth you send to the mirror that says, I’m here, and I like this human.
4. Taking A Deep Breath Before You React: One breath is all it takes to shift from reaction to response. In the pause, there’s space to choose differently. You don't have to be perfect, but you can be intentional. And that can change everything.
5. Noticing The Beauty In Something Simple: Paying attention to the simple things isn’t naive, it’s wise. It’s how we reconnect with the present, and remember that joy often wears simple clothes.
6. Asking For Help When You Need It: There’s bravery in saying “I can’t do this alone.” Vulnerability isn't weakness, it's connection. Reaching out means you’re human, not helpless. And the people who love you? They want to be there. Let them.
7. Trusting The Process: You don’t have to have it all figured out right now. Some of the most beautiful things take time to unfold. Trust the seasons of your life, especially the messy, uncertain ones. Growth often happens in silence, not spectacle.
8. Buy Yourself Flowers: Because you deserve beauty without a reason. You don’t have to wait for someone else to celebrate you. Be the occasion. Brighten your space, your mood, your day, just because you can. That’s power.
The world may tell you that grand gestures are what count but don’t underestimate the magic of the little things. They’re not so little. They’re life giving, heart healing, and soul sustaining. So if you're feeling overwhelmed, lost, or just tired, start here.
Sources:
MindJournal, "25 Small Things You Can Do For Yourself Everyday"